Frances Trollope,
an Englishwoman visiting Paris in 1835, made many observations
comparing the British and the French. In her memoires she
claims that Parisians are perfect examples of the absolute
best manners
and style. Trollope also mentions that the Parisian
salons are a good place to see the typical Parisians
manners, gestures, and dress.
"We
have much to learn still; and the general tone of daily
associations might be yet further improved, did the best
specimens of Parisian habits and manners furnish the examples"
(Trollope, Volume I, 34).
"The
vanity of the French does not show itself in little things;
and it is exactly for this reason that their enjoyment
of society is stripped so much of the anxious, sensitive,
ostentatious, self-seeking etiquette which so heavily
encumbers our own" (Trollope
Volume I, 37).
The ease and freedom of salon
entertaining introduces another distinctive Parisian characteristic:
conversation. Parisians at this time were known for
being charming, lively, idle, and unrestrained
conversationalists. This was a breath of fresh air to the
British, who were used to a more rigid, stiff, and structured
style of entertaining. Trollope was taken away with the
Parisian style of conversation,
"The manner in which
the Frenchmen communicates what he had acquired is particularly
amiable, graceful and unpedantic" (Kramer,
44).
She
was also impressed with the amount of knowledge that the
Parisians posessed on all topics,
"To
know so well everything that has been written, and everything
that has been done...no one over appears ignorant on any
subject" (Kramer, 44).
Another typical characteristic
of the Parisian lifestyle that Trollope noticed was the
Parisian love for outdoor
amusement.
Parisians love to take long strolls on the beautiful
boulevards
of the city, and they spend long hours in the parks
and gardens simply lounging and reading
in the sun. They also enjoy spending their leisure time
in the cafés,
restaurants, drawing-rooms, and salons
of Paris.
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