Commencement
Address by Her Majesty Queen Noor
Mt. Holyoke College So. Hadley, MA
May 26, 2002
Honored Guests, Faculty, Ladies and Gentlemen, and of course,
The Graduates of 2002:
Thank you very, very much. Its an enormous privilege to be
here on this truly magnificent campus, in the company of such distinguished
fellow honorary degree recipients, of course the faculty of such
an exceptional institution, family and friends of the graduates
of the Class of 2002. Thank you all.
Now I have to warn you at the outset that I have been given a great
deal more time than my fellow recipients, so I will do my best,
as was so well expressed earlier. I know that you have many, many
things that you are looking forward to. I have looked forward to
this day for a very long time. In fact, for six years, since I was
first invited for the 1996 graduation. I was hoping to speak here
last year as well, but at least for me it is a great joy and pleasure
that it is you that I share this day with and your family and your
friends. Each time it seems Middle East politics and related difficulties
intervened and, while they have stopped, today is the day.
It was brought to my attention recently, that both events are still
recorded on the Mt. Holyoke web site, making it look as if I were
somehow entitled to two honorary degrees. I certainly wouldnt
want to appear greedy still, one can never have too much
of a good thing.
And Holyoke is certainly rich in good things. You have courses here
I wish fervently had been available to me when I began my rather
unusual career: Your Speaking, Arguing and Writing program would
undoubtedly have helped diminish some of my agony over my early
speeches and interviews; and your Center for Environmental Literacy
could have provided excellent preparation for my extensive international
work in the field of conservation.
My own university education, Princeton, did however, offer some
uncommon experiences that helped prepare me surprisingly well. One
was the pioneering challenge of membership in the first class of
women to enter Princeton. Quite the opposite from the supportive
environment you have enjoyed here, when I arrived the male to female
ratio was more than 22 to 1 a situation which, as you might
imagine, required the quick development of diplomacy and survival
skills, and as it turned out excellent preparation for my work in
more traditional societies in the Middle East.
Holyoke is rich, too, in a wealth of diversity of a kind that I
had to travel far to experience 25 years ago: you have at least
75 countries represented on campus, as well as an International
Guest Students program, nine active faith groups, Muslim Students
Association, and a joint Kosher/Halal dining hall where Jewish and
Muslim students can join together to observe their dietary laws
a simple and inspiring, example of members of the Abrahamic
faiths embracing what they have in common.
Holyoke is also rich in a long history of womens leadership.
It is a place where you all can draw on the past to support your
efforts to change the future. From your experience, here, and that
of the distinguished Holyoke women who have gone before you into
the wider world, you know that women can be leaders in any areas
they choose.
Mt. Holyokes position as a college dedicated to womens
advancement in a region rich with history resonates especially with
me, for I am a woman dedicated to progress in a region where the
past and present are alive, and interact daily. If you think Mt.
Holyoke is old at 165, imagine, in Jordan, with every step we take
forward into the future, we are reminded that we are treading pathways
marked out over millennia, from the founding of the first human
cities 10,000 years ago, through the flowering of the three great
Abrahamic faiths, through the crossroads of trade and tumult over
centuries.
We do not let that slow our steps towards progress, especially where
women are concerned throughout history, the world over, womens
feet have too often been hobbled and bound, literally and metaphorically
but on such ancient paths we tread carefully.
True progress, while it solves problems, must grow out of history
and tradition; it cannot be dictated by fiat. It must respect and
work with the culture of those expected to embrace it; it cannot
be externally imposed.
This has been a primary focus of my work, over the past 25 years
combined with my efforts to bridge our cultures by addressing widespread
misconceptions concerning Arabs and Muslims particularly
women. Few westerners realize that in the 7th Century, Islam liberated
attitudes towards women and granted them specific social, political
and economic rights long before Western societies did, such as the
equal right to education, to conduct business, to own and inherit
property, and not to be coerced into a marriage, instead introducing
a marriage contract, a kind of early pre-nuptial agreement, to assure
the rights of the woman in particular.
According to the Quran, God or Allah said, "I waste not the
labor of any that labors among you, be you male or female--the one
of you is as the other." And, the Prophet Mohammad said, "All
people are equal. They are as equal as the teeth on a comb."
Women the world over, including in the Muslim world, have had to
struggle with the limitations placed upon them by less enlightened
members of their societies. Islam fought against this from the beginning,
and today, conservative, intolerant and restrictive interpretations
of tradition and scripture clearly do not reflect the beliefs of
the majority of Muslims nor the intentions of the Prophet himself.
But rather than dwell on the aberrant and oppressive beliefs of
those who would twist the teachings of Islam --important as it is
to correct the dangerous and false perceptions they have engendered
-- I would like to focus on the inseparable issues of women, leadership,
and peace in our time - vitally linked themes which I believe more
accurately reflect the true message of Islam and the teachings and
life of the Prophet Mohammed a man who surrounded himself
with strong women such as his first wife, once his employer, who
later supported his mission . . . and his last wife who led troops
into battle to defend the faith after his death. Even beyond the
religious consideration, I think these are subjects of interest
and crucial import to us all.
Unfortunately, since the first time I was invited here, circumstances
have changed for all of us. In 1996, the Jordanian-Israeli
Peace Treaty was young, the Palestinian and Israeli governments
were actively engaged in seeking peace, and hope and optimism were
in the air. Graduates here in the U.S. were embarking on a path
of unprecedented prosperity and promise.
Today, uncertainty reigns. And after the tragedy of September 11th,
for many of you, it is an uncertainty darker and deeper than what
seems like the simpler worries of only last year worries
about jobs, the economy and what to do after graduation.
This new dimension of anxiety and uncertainty for many Americans
and others after September 11th is nothing new in many other parts
of the world. Just as many friends and relatives of the World Trade
Center victims remain in wretched suspense about the exact/ precise
fate of their loved ones, the Women of Srebrenica in Bosnia have
been waiting for almost seven years for news of theirs, since 8000
Muslim men and boys were marched away and never seen again.
Just as many Americans now face anxiety over terrorism, citizens
in both Israel and the West Bank live in a constant state of alert
for attacks, whether by belt bomb or tank, and women, children and
men cannot walk freely in Afghanistan and in many other places in
the world without fearing the very ground under their feet may explode
from those insidious, deadly leftovers from yesterdays wars---
landmines.
While Americans may worry about anthrax and even smallpox attacks,
mothers in Africa worry about protecting their children from a whole
range of much more common diseases ranging from dysentery to AIDS.
Recent events have highlighted for some in the US, although perhaps
not yet enough for others, that they share the problems of the rest
of the world, whether they want to or not. The continuing terrorist
threats have jolted many into the realization that there is no security
in isolation. Now, rather than going on the offensive, its
time to assess the role of the US in the community of nations and
cultures, to look together for positive ways to solve these problems,
and to pursue peace.
And here at Holyoke, you know that women can lead that process.
In the long history of a world full of war, women have always at
least been paid lip service as the guardians of peace. From Aristophanes
comedic heroine Lysistrata, head of a very effective womens
peace network with a to put it delicately rather novel
negotiating style, to Emily Green Balch, who helped found the Women's
International League for Peace and Freedom, and shared the Nobel
Peace Prize in 1946, to another Nobel Laureate, Aung San Suu Kyi,
recently released once again from house arrest in Burma, women have
acted as symbols in the intermittent human battle against militarism/military
oppression.
However, far too often, women have been commended in public for
their commitment to peace, just before the doors to the negotiating
room slammed shut in their faces.
And when they did get a foot in the door, they needed exceptional
courage and resolve to introduce reform. I recall a story of the
first woman on the staff of a large institution, who inquired about
a particularly unjust labor practice. Madam, she was
told, we have done it that way for one hundred years.
Sir, she replied, your hundred years are up!
This kind of initiative can make vital and lasting contributions
to the search for peace in our world. Tapping the unique talents
of women peace builders can, I believe, ultimately end global conflict.
And we desperately need new perspectives, for womens sake,
and for humanitys. Women are vital to the peace-building process,
and peace is vital to the advancement of women.
Women know better than anyone else that peace is not merely the
absence of hostilities, but must grow from a positive human security
founded in equity, tolerance and understanding.
Women are often the most vulnerable victims during war, and the
ones left to pick up the shattered pieces of their societies, as
well as their own lives, when it is over. I have witnessed this
throughout the Middle East, in the Balkans , and in Asia. I have
seen it in the faces of the women of Srebrenica, struggling to carry
on without their husbands, fathers and sons, and even without certain
knowledge of what happened to them. I have seen it in the supposedly
temporary Palestinian refugee camps in Jordan, and elsewhere
in our region, where women endeavor to make a life for their families
and hang on, even half a century later, to the hope of returning
to their homeland one day. And I have seen it in those striving
to overcome the devastation landmines have wrought on their bodies
and their lives in rural Jordan, in Lebanon, in Cambodia, and in
Vietnam.
Women bear the brunt of war, but they have almost never been included
in the process that launches or resolves conflict. And this is not
only unjust, but also unwise.
On the most basic level, peace begins in the community, and women
hold together the community. To exclude them undermines the very
foundation of peace. For quite some time now, the glittering prize
of the global marketplace has been held out as the incentive for
peace building. But women on the ground in war zones know only too
well how much cleaning up needs to be done before a society recovering
from conflict can even begin to contemplate international commerce.
The two edges of the sword that most seriously threatens the worlds
women are violence and poverty. Conflict destroys infrastructure
and diverts funds from development in areas women desperately need,
increasing the poverty from which they already suffer disproportionately.
And poverty is most often the underlying cause of conflict.
When given training, resources and opportunity, women will most
often invest in their families. And as they become genuine economic
players they also become active decision-makers in social and economic
affairs, improving their own status and influence, as well as the
overall quality of life and stability of their communities.
Through that increased sense of empowerment, and supported by training
and practical skills for mediation and conflict resolution, these
women in so many different areas - and I have seen this in Jordan-
are personally taking the lead and responsibility for our larger
quest for equity, understanding, and peace.
In this way, we are making progress at the community level. But
it is time to incorporate women, their voices, opinions and ideas
at the highest political levels. This process has begun, both through
the example of highly visible women, and through an increasing feminization
of politics, as women bring their issues to the forefront of national
and global consciousness. Politicians the world over are beginning
to realize that women vote. A record number of women are running
for Governor in US States this year. Womens movements are
gaining momentum, and visibility. Never before have so many women
held so much power.
It is no accident that NGOs have emerged as a major force for world
change as womens issues are coming to the center of the world
stage. [Women have always been the foundation of the community.
Now they are applying increased education and entrepreneurial skills
to longstanding areas of concern, and their community activism is
transforming civil society.] New networks are linking grass-roots
womens organizations to the political process, to make womens
voices heard in the corridors of power.
Those of you who attended the Afghanistan and Beyond
Forum in the Gamble Auditorium in March, heard some of those voices,
such as the Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan,
and Women Waging Peace, groups that use networking, political influence,
NGO and private sector partnerships and especially new technology
to bring about change.
Women, for the best and the worst reasons, have extensive experience
with reconciliation. Opposed to violence, whether by tradition,
temperament, or training, they have always relied on creative strategies
and an intuitive pragmatism to stop war.
They know that in the day-to-day effort to keep their households
and their communities functioning, ideology is a luxury they dont
have time for. They dont agree on everything, but they try
to bridge their differences to share the resources and information
needed to restructure their societies.
Women leaders from Israeli and Palestinian territories have formed
such coalitions as the Jerusalem Link to forge a common language
for peace in the Middle East. Similar examples abound from Azerbaijan
to the Andes. True, alliances may be born out of necessity, but
in the long run such joint ventures encourage the development of
peace-oriented leadership.
After all, it is not only physical infrastructure that must be restored
after decades of betrayal and violence. Trust must be carefully
interwoven into the fabric of society, threading together the views
and needs of the citizenry. Agreements among official leaders are
not enough. Acceptance and reconciliation must begin in the streets
of war-torn communities. Women working for peace often find the
middle ground that eludes political leaders that ground on
which peace is built in the daily lives of the people.
Let me add this, even though I realize this is long, but for the
grandfathers, fathers, brothers and sons in this audience, of course,
I would never want to imply that it is only women who pursue peace.
I have just come from a conference at McGill University in Montreal,
celebrating the McGill Middle East Program in Civil Society and
Peace Building. The program brings together graduate students from
Israel, Jordan and the Palestinian territories, to work and study
together for a Masters degree in Social Work-- practical skills
needed to help the citizens in their conflict-scarred communities,--while
also developing a professional and humanitarian network of mutual
support , respect and understanding so crucial to our efforts to
promote a culture of peace in our region.
Now, especially now, when peace seems more elusive than ever, its
time for all of us, governments, businesses, and private individuals
alike, to commit ourselves to the bold and often dangerous work
of peace-builders, especially women. Women have long enough been
the symbols of peace the Goddess Pax, perched on a pediment
above the Parliament Buildings of the world, often the first to
be knocked down when the rockets flare.
Now it is time they took their rightful place as the makers of peace,
in the negotiating and legislative chambers, using their all too
intimate experience with war and their expertise in coalition-building
to create a new world community. To the men or anyone
who says we must continue as we always have, it is time to say,
Sir, your hundred or thousand, or ten thousand
years are up!
You can and must add your voice to the many other womens voices
around the world calling for peace, justice and tolerance. Thanks
to the power of technology in the service of democratic principles,
never before in human history have ordinary people had so much opportunity
to do good.
Given the intense commercialism of Western culture, and the current
anxiety about job prospects, it is easy to assume that college graduates
are dyed-in-the-wool materialists, interested solely in personal
gain and career advancement. But there is heartening evidence to
the contrary. According to a UCLA study last year, more students
are speaking out and acting against injustice, than any time since
1966. Most important, the survey also marks a record number of students
volunteering their time, talents and effort to help others.
There are many examples of dedicated service among both current
college students and alumni, who give not only of their funds but,
more importantly, of themselves. And while some graduates make service
their careers, others choose to contribute outside their work
all finding their own answers to the question of how best to put
their values and privileges to work in the world.
With your energy, your education and your intelligence, you have
so much more to offer not only to the world of work, but to the
world at large. Those qualities are needed now more desperately
than ever before.
I was impressed and heartened when I read about the Graduation Pledge
that many of you have signed since February. I wont ask for
a show of hands, or even try to do a mental tally of green ribbons,
because such a pledge is a thoughtful, internal commitment. But
I do congratulate you any of you who are trying to
work out how to make a living while making a difference in the world.
In the face of uncertainty, the essence of humanity is hope. You,
the new graduates of Mt. Holyoke College, the next generation of
women leaders, can nurture that hope. And you can build a future
for us all.
God bless you and many, many, many congratulations. |