Diversity in Public High Schools:
A Look at the Experiences of
Gay and Lesbian Students
Part I: Life in Public
High Schools for Gay and Lesbian Students
"I ended up dropping out of school
because of homophobia."
- Louis Y. (GLSEN-CO, 2000).
"I felt as though I was the only
gay person my age in the world. I felt as though I had no-where to go to
talk to anybody throughout eighth grade. I went to be every night praying
that I would not be able to wake up in the morning, and every morning being
disappointed. And, so finally, I decided that if I was going to die, it
would have to be at my own hands."
- Steve (Governor's Commission,
1993; Baily and Pharis, 1996)
"School was a definite hellhole.
H-E-L-L hole. No lie."
- Christi (O'Conor, 1995)
"Kids waiting for me at the front
gate. I can't make the two minute walk home unless I am surrounded by my
friends or picked up by my parents."
- Anthony Colin (Bull, 2000)
"They just started calling me 'faggot'
this and 'fag' that, and all of a sudden I didn't have any friends anymore...I
saw what happened to other kids who got called queer at school. I dropped
out."
- Tommy (O'Conor, 1995)
"We were picked on. We were called
'queer' and 'faggot' and a host of other homophobic slurs. We were also
used as punching bags by our classmates, just for being different."
- A college student, remembering
high school (GLSEN - CO, 2000b)
"I just began hating myself more
and more as each year the hatred toward me grew and escalated from just
simple name calling in elementary school to having persons in high school
threaten to beat me up, being pushed and dragged around the ground, having
hands slammed in lockers and a number of other daily tortures."
- A gay male high school student
(GLSEN - CO, 2000b)
Researchers, based on the 1972
Kinsey report, generally accept that approximately 10% of the population
is gay or lesbian (Grayson, 1987; Bailey and Phariss, 1996). This population
represents every race, ethnicity, class, and ability that means there are
a significant number of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered people
in the education system. The Colorado Department of Health (1992) and Dunham
(1989) estimate that there are 2.9 million gay or lesbian adolescents in
the United States and because they are an "invisible" minority, they have,
for the most part, sat passively though school - their identifies having
been ignored or denied (Bailey and Phariss, 1996). Both teachers and students
have remained "in the closet" because of the hostility they see others
experiencing and because of internalized opposition which can lead (especially
for adolescents) to self-doubt and fear (Harbeck, 1991). The United States
educational system has not helped gays and lesbians to become visible.
Cultural taboos, fear of controversy, and deeply rooted, pervasive homophobia
have kept the educational system blind and mute (Uribe and Harbeck, 1991)
Gay and Lesbian Students in the School
Public schools are supposed to offer
young people "academic enrichment and a foundation for the future" (LaFontaine,
1999). Many gay and lesbian adolescents are being robbed of or are unable
to receive that academic foundation. As parent Julie B. states in GLSEN-C0
(2000),”Public Education in our democratic country implies/requires educating
all students. Each school district in this state [Colorado] has an obligation
to offer an equal education to all children. As a teacher and parent I
know that learning does not happen when anyone, young or old, feels unsafe.”
A 1997 survey by the Massachusetts
Department of Education (DOE) found that 22.2% of gay and lesbian students
skipped school in the month prior to the study because they felt unsafe
- a rate that is five times more that that of heterosexual adolescents.
31.2% of gay and lesbian students surveyed by the DOE in 1997 also said
they were threatened or injured with a weapon at school in the past year,
four times more that that of other students (cited in LaFonatine, 1999).
Another survey, completed by the U.S. Department of Justice, found that
gay and lesbians are the more frequent victims of hate crimes. School,
unfortunately, is the number one setting for this type of violence (Henek,
1989; cited in O'Conor, 1995). The 1993 Governor's Commission on gay and
lesbian youth stated that 80% of gay and lesbian youth report severe social
isolation. 97% of students in public high schools report regularly hearing
homophobic remarks from their peers (Hetrick and Martin, 1987 as cited
in GLSEN-CO, 2000b).
Project 10, named for the Kinsey report estimate that 10% of the population is homosexual, began in 1984 to serve the needs to the gay and lesbian students in Los Angeles Unified School District (LAUSD) (Uribe, 1991). Project 10 reports the following information (although I could not find any statistics that supported these claims in the literature about Project 10). Gay, lesbian, and bisexual students, in comparison to their heterosexual peers, have higher levels of or experience more:
suicide
substance abuse
sexual abuse
homelessness
parent rejection
emotional isolation
dropout risk
low self-esteem
prostitution
physical and verbal abuse
sexually transmitted diseases (Uribe
and Harbeck, 1991)
Educators Feelings About Homosexuality and Homosexual People
Also making schools unsafe places for gay and lesbian youth is the silence and homophobia of teachers and administrators. Because students look to teachers and administrators for guidance on information, attitudes, knowledge, and feelings, educators have a significant impact on the feelings and experiences of students - including homosexuality. Students perceive their teachers' attitudes and feelings through verbal and non-verbal cues. Teachers’ attitudes can provide the validation a student needs to accept their sexuality. Teacher attitudes can also have the reverse effect (Lipkin, 1995).
Some teachers and administrators harass, ridicule, or unfairly punish gay and lesbian students. However, the most prevalent type of discrimination within the school systems is the failure of school officials and teachers to protect gay and lesbian students from harassment and violence (Dennis and Grayson, 1987; Bailey and Phariss, 1996). This includes the failure of educators and administration to intervene and confront students when jokes, name calling, or slurs are made. This leads to the failure to provide a safe learning environment for all students (Bailey and Phariss, 1996).
Studies and research on students,
prospective teachers, teachers, and guidance counselors obtained the following
results:
- 53% of students report
hearing homophobic comments made by school staff (Governor's Commission,
1993)
- 80% of prospective teachers
report negative attitudes towards gay and lesbian people; of that 80%,
one-third are categorized as "high grade homophobes" (Sears, 1991)
- 2/3 of guidance counselors
harbor negative feelings towards gay and lesbian people (Sears, 1991)
- 77% of prospective teachers
would not encourage class discussion about homosexuality (Sears, 1991)
- 85% teachers would oppose
integrating gay/lesbian themes into their existing curriculum (Sears, 1991)
- 71.6% of teachers in Colorado
expressed moderate to high levels of homophobia (Bailey, 1996)
- 87.6% of teachers in Colorado
had moderate to high numbers of misconceptions - about homosexuality
and homosexual persons; only 12% had fewer or no misconceptions about homosexualityless
that 20% of guidance counselors have received any training on serving gay
and lesbian students (Sears, 1991)
These statistics are only representing
three states, and therefore, feelings and attitudes about homosexuality
vary for teachers and guidance counselors across the United States.